January 1st

 On our way to the Peace Pagoda, I sat quietly

in the passenger seat listening

to my friend's children fighting in the back.

The petty taunting followed by a reactionary slap.

They are not my children so I keep my eyes out the window

and comment on the lack of snow.


We walked the woods path to the temple

the kids continuing their row, then the first glance

of Buddha in meditation pose; giant and white

eyes cast down on the ground.

I tried to reflect on the year I'd spent - the times I'd been kind,

been cruel, been indifferent. 


Life is suffering, read the engraving on the wall. 

Life is a river always moving. Do not hold on to things.

were Buddha's last words on his death bed. 

I imagine myself being carried by white light like a river

weightless from all the things I've shed. 

The kind of peace that comes from absence.


Before we leave, I step inside the temple and I pray

at the altar adorned with orange and gold offerings

for my eyes and my heart to open wide - and then wider 

for a year where I am kinder

and braver and heavier 

with the full weight of this suffering upon me. 





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